My last post, along with the two comments I've gotten so far, has got me thinking. Some AP's have said that it was God's plan that they adopt. That is was God's plan for me that I didn't grow up with my natural family and instead grew up with abusive twitch-holes.
But what of the fact that my afather was sterile? Couldn't that have also been God's plan? That God knew the kind of sick, twisted abusive father he'd be and wanted to "cut it off at the pass", so to speak?
I think Linda said it best.."Plan A is to have your own kid. Plan B is adoption. Guess what?? Our ap's were our plan B, too."