So, I don't agree with international adoption...or domestic adoption. But I've always been semi-okay with foster-to-adopt. I thought that "those kids" needed families more than the kids being ripped away from their homelands and natural families.
But really, what is the difference? The children in foster care have families too. Families that they were taken from in much the same way that the international and domestic adoptees were taken from.
One of my online friends called out a bunch of us on it today. She was in foster care and made me realize how very hurtful our words were.
Wow. I really feel awful.